Perfect timing controls all the stages of development of life in all areas. All humans are controlled by time and space. Observe the human development from conception to the time of his passing away from this life. In between are a complex of adventures and misadventures. Even at the onset of conception is in itself a perfect timing. Among the millions of zygotes that raced towards the fertilized egg of the mother, you championed it because you got the perfect timing and was conceived while the rest were just wasted away. You became a human from then on and the journey in life began.

You started in complete dependence to your location, the womb. Your food intake, your blood, your breath, your comfort or discomfort were all dependent on your mother’s womb in the material sense but above all that you didn’t have to plan intentionally for what your life is going to be, there would be a perfect time for such a development. All human beings evolve into something. In this particular stage of development where everything that you are depends on your location, the womb and the mother, most importantly nature or the natural process of development as controlled by the time of your stay inside the womb, all you can do is to relax and wait mostly unconsciously(?) I put a question mark after the word “unconsciously” because there are new studies now that show that the fetus is aware of what is going on even outside the womb such as it hears the mother’s voice and the people she socialize with even the noise and music around the mother.

It is compulsory for the fetus to come out from the womb in the perfect time, ceteris paribus, meaning everything in that pregnancy is normal. Perfect timing does not stop at birth. The next stage of development follow right after the baby is born. Many changes occur, the change of environment and everything different from where he had been for nine months, the food, relationships with people around, recognizing objects and sounds then acting on his likes and dislikes, the baby has to cope with all of these right after birth onward in his babyhood.

Life adventure is getting more complicated as the baby grows in years and physical changes. This reminds me of my eldest grand daughter when she was barely four years old. Her parents sent her to nursery school where they had to learn the alphabets and she had many assignments, mostly recognizing drawings, shapes and colors. One day my daughter’s friend visited us carrying her one-year old toddler. My grand daughter played with him and I heard her say to the toddler “I envy you because you are care-free and have no problems” then I asked her, why, what are your problems? She answered, many school homework.

As we journey on in life, we pass through a lot of stages of requirements to fit with the socio-cultural norms of the society we are in. Learning and education are very important development to become a respectable and responsible person. And we have dreams for ourselves that require personal effort to achieve. Life has many twists and turns, many of them natural but there are always individual reasons and differences that we do something that our peers don’t agree, worse contradict.

But then there is always a perfect time for everything in our individual lives. There is a perfect time to dream, a perfect time to accomplish or act on your dream, a perfect time to wait and relax because when your perfect time to succeed or achieve comes nothing can stop it. Your soul knows the perfect timing for you, it made it happen when you championed at the time of conception. You won the victory when among the millions who raced to the fertile egg of your mother you were the one honored to become human. Life is not a race for who would be the best person in anything because every human is a champion in his own right but life is a race for the perfect timing of your becoming the perfect person and personality that you can be. Consult your own soul for a truly victorious life.